December 1 – December 15, 2026

Regency Gift-Giving Traditions – Social Etiquette, Romance, and Cultural Practices

with Dr Alessandra Pino
Registration Opens:
October 1, 2026!

Registration ends December 11, 2026!

Class Description

Week 1

The Social and Cultural Significance of Gifts

Day 1: Introduction to Regency Gift-Giving

Overview of the Regency Era: Understanding the social structure and class distinctions, and how these influenced the practice of giving and receiving gifts. Gifts were often used to reinforce social hierarchies, demonstrate wealth, and solidify relationships.
Types of Gifts: Discussion of the common types of gifts exchanged during the Regency period, including:

  • Personal Gifts: Jewellery, portraits, and handkerchiefs.
    Material Gifts: Books, fine china, furniture, and other luxurious items.
    Symbolic Gifts: Flowers, tokens of affection, and love letters.

Day 2: Gift-Giving in Courtship and Marriage

Role of Gifts in Courtship: How gifts were used to express romantic interest, with a focus on the expectations surrounding engagement rings, flowers, and other tokens.
• Gifts as Social Contracts: The cultural expectation that certain types of gifts be exchanged at certain stages of a relationship (e.g., a gentleman might gift his fiancée with a ring or other tokens of affection as a sign of commitment).
• Marriage Gifts: How gifts were exchanged during engagements and weddings, including the importance of dowries and wedding presents. Discussion of the role of “bridal presents” in establishing a woman’s position within a marriage and her family’s social standing.

Day 3: Gift-Giving for Family and Friends

Gifts Within Families: The exchange of gifts between family members, focusing on the social expectations and norms surrounding familial gifting, especially between parents and children, siblings, and close relatives.
• Gifts Between Friends: A look at how gifts played a role in maintaining friendships, with specific examples of items that were exchanged among friends and their symbolic meanings.
• Social Etiquette and Class Distinctions: How the types and value of gifts varied by social class, and how gifts were used to reinforce social status and relationships.

Day 4: The Art of Gift-Giving Etiquette

Gift-Giving Etiquette: An in-depth look at the rules and guidelines for appropriate gift-giving. This would cover expectations around timing, presentation, and the level of formality. For instance, gifts for superiors would be more formal and of higher value, whereas gifts for peers or inferiors were more personal.
• The Role of Wrapping and Presentation: In Regency society, the way gifts were wrapped and presented was almost as important as the gift itself. Learners can get to know more about the tradition of presenting gifts beautifully and the etiquette surrounding it.

Week 2

Gift-Giving in Regency Literature, Art, and Modern Legacy

Day 1: Gift-Giving in Regency Literature

• Gifts in Jane Austen’s Novels: A study of how gifts are portrayed in novels such as Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, and Emma, focusing on their role in courtship, social class, and relationships
• Other Literary Examples: Exploring the role of gifts in works by authors like Sir Walter Scott and Lord Byron, where gift exchanges often signified power dynamics, loyalty, or affection.

Day 2: Symbolism and Meaning in Gifts

• Symbolic Significance: How certain gifts carried symbolic meaning during the Regency period. For example, jewellery was often symbolic of status or romantic intention, while flowers were laden with meaning (e.g., roses for love, lilies for purity).
• Gifts as Expressions of Identity: How people used gifts to express personal identity, feelings, or intentions. For example, a man giving a woman a portrait might signify his romantic interest, or a personalized gift might demonstrate a deeper connection.

Day 3: The Role of Holidays and Special Occasions in Gift-Giving

• Seasonal Gifts: A focus on how gift-giving was tied to holidays and special occasions such as Christmas, birthdays, and New Year’s. Discuss how the Regency elite might exchange gifts on these occasions and how the traditions of Christmas gifting evolved during this period.
Festivities and Social Gatherings: How gift-giving was intertwined with events like balls, dinners, and soirées. A gift given at a ball could serve as a declaration of affection, while an appropriate present at a dinner party could enhance one’s social standing.

Day 4: The Legacy of Regency Gift-Giving

• The Influence of Regency Gift-Giving on Modern Traditions: How Regency-era gift-giving traditions influenced contemporary British and Western practices, from weddings and engagements to Christmas gift exchanges.
• Contemporary Gift-Giving Practices: A look at how Regency traditions continue to inform the way we give and receive gifts today, including the lasting impact on modern wedding traditions, gift registries, and other rituals.
Reflection: A final discussion where learners reflect on the societal pressures and cultural expectations of gift-giving, and consider how these have evolved over time.

Dr. Alessandra Pino

About the Instructor

Dr Alessandra Pino is an expert on intersections of the Gothic, food, and cultural memory.

Alessandra was born in Hampstead, London, to an Italian mother and Venezuelan father, and she grew up in several different countries.
She holds a BA in English Literature from Naples ‘L’Orientale’. Dr Pino received her MA in Translation Studies and a PhD in Food, Cultural Memory and the Gothic from the University of Westminster. She worked with a Michelin-starred chef for nearly ten years before entering the world of academia.

Dr Pino is co-author of A Gothic Cookbook, which digs into food themes and motifs in a series of classic and contemporary novels from the 19th century to the present day. She is also the co-host of Fear Feasts a podcast which analyses the horror genre through the lens of food and the A is for Apple Podcast, an encyclopedia of food and drink. She is a lecturer at RomancingtheGothic.com. In 2024, Dr Pino was inducted into The Guild of Food Writers in the UK.

Her website: www.alessandrapino.com

Class Delivery

Class Format

2-WEEK COURSE

Written Lectures: Yes
Pictures: Yes

Class Fees

$20 for RFW members
$35 for non-members

Registration Opens:
October 1, 2026!

Registration ends December 11, 2026!

Scholarships are available for members

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